Thursday, December 30, 2010

We do not have the fortieth anniversary of the voluntary sacrifice ---- mountains and the countryside (Wu Daoping)

 Forty years ago, October 18, 1968, we, a famous south more than a thousand high school students, the school's neighbors, Jiangsu Province, the military brigade military taught dozens of military trucks people use, to rural areas jump the queue. cloudless day, autumn, yellow leaves the ground. we feel it and Autumn the contrary, the dark clouds, heavy, dark, fear: the dream of our youth in this day burst, we feel that they are sliding into a bottomless abyss.
I jump the queue in the rural areas a total of eight and a half and four days. eight and a half of the queue-jumping career, took me from one who is dare to have dreams of youth. the students age, we have mercy on those who make a living all day bustle of living things is the slaves to have been mercilessly killed the parents of our students ---- Zhuixin biting miss every day, which more than a thousand families experiencing long-term suffering. and the country as we have more than ten million young people, ; families have more than a thousand million! from the northeast of the Great Northern Wilderness to the rubber plantations in Yunnan frontier, from the Shaanxi-Gansu Loess Plateau to the East China Sea, Chongming Island, the country's rural areas, farms, leaving everywhere
the history of this period, in any case can not escape criteria. However, the ultimate criterion for evaluation of historical events is a human, is human survival and development, is a specific historical events of human existence and development of the role. judge the standards movement will only be village the there was no love, it was a lifetime living in entrance into the university even in less than forty people to study abroad, only five or six. we have our school enrollment, but an entrance had been nearly 100% of secondary schools record ah! 1992, I came back and classmates gathering Most of them have been found laid off, retired, doing nothing in the rest of mahjong and kill the drama. then positive youth boys and girls who never had a flash of life in the days of white hair on his head has been forgotten by society . We are outside in the relative regret, but also what to say! If not that campaign, how can they be down and out to this!
we are being sacrificed, was torn generation. and grandparents, parents than we like them experienced hunger in the famine years, most people have not enjoyed that they had had access to education, employment, freedom of movement; and my younger than most of us do not like them to enjoy material wealth. the mistakes of the country's history, unjustly, too much to bear by the people of this generation.
Today, some people might say, when you do not also have loyalty to the party table, to go to rural areas Zhantiandoudi, transformation yourself? have also vowed not spectacular rural youth for my country, and aims to do revolutionary successor to the great cause?
is that there are some people had to do it. it is because they are too young, the status quo lack of understanding, unconditional trust in the rulers is indeed thought to the countryside to do the great work. I remember someone came to Tiananmen Square to the Beijing declaration, determination to Yenan to jump the queue and take the old road of revolution, and so on.
However, I I believe the people harbor that only a few romantic sentiments, but they are blocked in a real case of information to make the wrong judgments are subject to a fool. with me to jump the queue in the more than a thousand students to the middle, I have never seen this kind of become a not propaganda team ; smart beautiful and most gas, Movement effective way: When recruiting in the Northeast, it is to use this until the can make you ; voluntary .
, these are not wrong. my own blood and tears That life has undergone trials and challenges abroad to encounter some frustration, so as , once said, more than eight years in despair suffered torment, can not compensate for lost dreams, lost love, and damaged health; more importantly, the use of violence to force my will, to limit my freedom, my personality and fouling is caused by trauma can never be compensated. If freedom, youth, education, the pursuit of the ideal self and life experience between the passive be my choice, I certainly did not hesitate to choose the former, I think most of their peers the choice of who would do the same.
Some people may say, our youth have had life time of a very special, unprecedented, and probably also to the experience of no worth value.
is that for us said that this is a very special life experience. However, , would not Yoshiya sent to the countryside to the exercise you?
, some Prince, the Princess who is visited. That was because of the painstaking efforts of their parents, that is to take over when they will not, like fools, King Hui lost as easily regimes. them to have clear goals and established program ---- Rural, into the factory, to troops, schools, learning martial arts written to inherit their cause. and therefore they do not need to force, deception, they naturally would not voluntarily. For us to understand from the first day to jump the queue is correct, no two ways about that clear: we will be there forever, that train successors ! If not Renwangzhengxi, the world changes, the first step in this program the end of the day certainly did not. Both the In order to solve the country was in economic and political difficulties, and therefore for the country, made a contribution to the nation.
is that we are as a country, nation, also made a sacrifice for the rulers of the error. But we sacrifice not out of their own will. then Tan refused to flee, shouted, sacrifices Qiurenderen, voluntary case, so with no regrets. and we had nothing in common with him, because we are forced to sacrifice.
Therefore, no matter now or in the future, if someone tries to this field stained with blood and tears of what to look for the movement of not legal, but inhumane, of course, will not be in the history of a positive evaluation. means only reflect the purpose of mean never mean. , to visit a collective farm. a farmer said to him, stick they have been willing to rush into a stick, people should go or not go in to choose freedom. any case, the time for us to go, even grim, hand surgeon rods, heart, such as snakes and scorpions who are embarrassed to say that paradise. < br> Today, high-sounding reason to take a thousand, ten thousand kinds of so-called positive elements, want to defend all that campaign waste their effort: to determine that campaign is a national disgrace, disaster, the nature of the youth, just one sentence: : From autumn 1968 to spring 1977, I have to jump the queue more than eight and a half, a total of 3,104 days and nights, also more than 173 days War! four decades past, when all had to jump the queue is vanishing from memory to those people and things gradually blurred, that experience of getting back to life. But when I see on ; met then However, among related activities with the educated youth, there is a I never participated in that gathering of the educated youth organizations. Such gatherings often overseas, I live in the area several times to hold a commemoration of the educated youth.
Why? only one reason: I'm afraid to see those party to play the slogan on our experience, we had about life, society, thinking and thinking about the choices on the basis of our attitude toward the face of adversity, and so on, are no cause or need to regret, reflection.
However, we really regret it? really?
No, I have a lot to regret, reflection of the place. because at that time in the face of adversity, if we can correct the face of it, I have much happier past and present, for their will be a solid grasp of the fate of some of my personal, family or society can do much more certain, better. There are many things I could do, should do, but I just did not do.
I can not regret.
example, if the social situation at the time have a more in-depth study and reflection on history can have a more clear understanding of the world's confidence in the trend of a relatively strong, then a long period when I was not anxiety, pessimism in and easily give up their ideals and aspirations. I should understand that billions of people that attempt to unify under a person's thinking, by a minority to rule by force and fraud, and the best efforts of the Chinese financing from a once the country back into the world trend and the natural direction of the economy isolation, exclusion, all the fine culture of ancient and modern politics, in any case is to maintain near, a counter on the road; is the second Nala, after the Boxer ignorance, forces of a dying moan decline, a supernatural power; are those who fear their own in the modern world, people will be mercilessly eliminated a final struggle. I should be a deep understanding of Sun Yat-sen called children, asked me to From the thick darkness, relying on the status of historical thinking and analysis to anticipate the inevitable arrival of the light, that requirement is too high.
words, of course reasonable, but it does not We had no instructions as to. Although China was sealed like a drum like: books were burned, archive, the University is closed, so that resources are very poor thinking; news, the message is blocked, we all accept that the official propaganda machine of lies, spread the facts, the truth to risk their lives, and so on. But the iron is still tainted joints: We are still able to eavesdrop on foreign countries, overseas radio broadcasts to get limited information, we can still spread from thinking, to explore the space is very small, but still there.
more importantly, there are many around us experience, knowledge of the older generation, there is very rich, they were persecuted most profit to have learned nothing useful. our school Several teachers in there. We had no idea that they should be to ask for advice, ask for advice not only knowledge, but also to the life they ask for advice, history, national experiences and lessons learned in order to broaden their horizons. we could get life from them strength and wisdom, so that some of his far-sighted, but because of their ignorance and waste of those valuable resources.
At that time, a friend of my father, who has been labeled as a ; reactionary academic authority appears to be ordinary, a high school student knows that. may be one person at the time that billions of people instead of thinking of the times, in the whole country crazy to hire good at significantly less than that of Liao Dong Ne Buddhists baking screen Gui Ying baicalensis boil Jesus asked the party Ping Yue Mu phenol chop Guo sputum custodial ape?
my friend out of my trust, the family may suffer more braving the risk of persecution, told me his father's words. His father's words caused me to think, But I did not draw proper conclusions, can not believe that human survival and development needs will hinder the progress of an overwhelming political force. I am still trying to pursue a own eight and a half if you do not waste time and that can be realized early in the development of their own words, would not be so.
life if I really know, know how to live, I should be bold, enthusiastic to pursue love. < br> to say to today's young people really incredible, when we have our class positive youth boys and girls, You mess (Love) Love !a sentient, that is, the beginning of the collapse of country. On the other hand, the policy has a direct service to this idea: a small amount of time to factories, mines and work opportunities, expressly provides that a married person shall not be taken into account; girls have to check is a virgin, not a virgin no job qualifications! it not only can not make even the slaves, but also a humiliating experience.
this way, we live together men and women educated youth, but can not have intimate contact not even a love that; our parents we often knock the alarm: do not lose because of Nannvzhiqing one of the island. How many sleepless long nights, looked from the hut's window, it is darkness, light can not see a star; in addition to twenty miles away on the train Chiguo railway sounds and the occasional dog barks in addition, some people can not hear sound. in that desolate solitude, I wonder, contact me and the world Where children? I wish that the warmth of the opposite sex to give me the power of life; I know, also surrounded by many young girls also want comfort and touch the opposite sex. If we were able to boldly pursue love, express love, show love, then of course we will not jump the queue and get career happiness together, at least give the dying love doused with water, poured the tree of life, so as not to wither.
However, we prefer to suppress their own life impulse, that is not a step, is to one day be able to finally village has two very good temperament, Nanjing female educated youth to miss the Mood for Love, not willing to trade down and still single.
have so many ; you?
may say, you are your own personal experience, not universal.
This of course is my personal experience, but it is not is not universal. In fact, the educated youth in my own experience is similar to too much. They are not their own reflection, I can not say. But the night and dreamed that, ask yourself, I believe there are few educated youth really say obtained through evolution, and therefore completely normal psychological mechanisms, will hide their own bitter experience, to cover up a bleeding wound. There is a negative experience as far as the tendency to find positive elements to assert themselves psychologically. This is self-protection mechanisms of human psychology, human survival benefit. a trace in the end the people through the logical, easy to like modern great logician Frege, Godel, Post, as the final psychological breakdown and madness. who more or less Yeah Q, I am afraid that everything can not be both honest with yourself, do not need to always be honest with themselves. So the I'd rather accept it. do is more than just less in the future, > Please leave us your story
mm that old now? how I also feel that their lives have not been fully launched? am feeling it difficult to accept.
, but just look at to a middle-aged; early in the morning and then walked the streets, parks and take a look at those who have retired, laid off in the morning there is time to morning exercises, and many have not my age I have to accept the fact that mm: at least in China, according to China current social standards, I'm old.
together from my classmates and I were forced to jump the queue to rural areas since the forty years have passed; from us into the University of counting, have also been three years. These ten flies hurry, family affairs world affairs, dodge is not open, little time to look at themselves, their wrinkles, the head of white hair; little time to think about the wrinkles, gray hair on we mean. When we look back to see their own time and was surprised to find that we, the .
is that we are irretrievably old. this year's commemoration of the domestic students, us. Ten years later, when the holding time of the fiftieth anniversary, we can guarantee that all of this year's party, including our own, still able to meet together? today, as later, will completely retreated the most marginalized of society, then, whether there will not be, in addition to our own, to remember the history of China ever had such a movement, so a generation? we willing to so quiet, occasional ripple, like to be a pond, as gradually subsided over time for the community, people, history, slowly forgetting?
No! We can not just silently out of the world! we have to write their own stories , spiritual path, for the dead fellows, China's true history, for our future generations, but also for ourselves.
if we quietly leave, how can we be worthy of those who killed the hard faithful? few days ago Domestic students sent e-letter about his classmate and two fellow students and the educated youth returned home the same village, another suicide story. his two students are talented, have their own strengths, if living now, must be very good talent. But their young lives to be swallowed dark years, never seen the light. Last year, I returned to visit a year fellows suffering from advanced gastric cancer. no more than two decades, he has been emaciated struggled up from the bed and asked me turned out to be only a question: entrusted to speak a word, or even the country are concerned about the large government! fully understand his own In addition to future generations to know, such a history in China, there had this wave of outstanding young people of their youth do not flash, it was dark swallowed. This is our lucky people who can live the only thing they do. < br> We want to leave a true record of the country. It is a historian Professor Tang Degang called years, has still to be the official public opinion in cosmetic, not refused, unwilling from the system, and their leaders from the ruling body, from the rule to be denied based on the theory completely. They superstition wrote, the real handed down forever. For example, in the 1960s more than thirty million people starved to death the great famine, the official weaving lies, said it was written documents, editorials, history books, textbooks, at great length, for decades. but the national weather records, the state's expenditure records, files in the former Soviet Union, around the local history, population statistics in, when the surviving by oral, written record of the material. In the face of the forces the logical chain of evidence, the official Lies written in ink how can I cover up the trail of blood had the people! lie where there is still room!
no doubt, villages, story, so that future generations historians to compare, identify, analyze and judge the authenticity.
may want to ask: who left us their own petty, fragmented, very personal story, how will the writing of history, work ? how spread even get down?
I answer: because of historical writing and interpretation are not the wishful thinking to imagine that the rulers are always controlled by the rulers. China several of the oldest writers of history books, such as Confucius, Hengyu, Sima Qian, not only not a The. Institute of History depends, in addition to official records, other than the official history books, but also rely on private histories and civil records, such as Chinese history, a lot of personal notes, memoirs, diaries, letters, etc., these are very personal . historian's task is by comparison, identification, analysis to Quweicunzhen, reconstruction historical truth. It is because of the existence of these people made historical documents drop, will become the official history of the control repair, as future historians found flaws in the official history of repair, reconstruction of the historical truth of the evidence chain link. just as there are a lot about the current three-year famine of private records, is become the basis for the historian of the same. As for the spread to the contemporary condition is no longer a problem. Sima Qian's time to a release, you can spread, to survive.
we have to write their own stories, leaving us the mentality of the year, as our experience and lessons learned to future generations. In the previous article, I write his career on the behavior of eight and a half to jump the queue of by the anxiety and low self-esteem, waste a lot of time; the disappointment of the future, coupled with public opinion at that time did not dare to break through the cage, long suppressed their feelings and not the pursuit of love, and so on. In a word, eight and a half hours, only to will certainly form a rich legacy of life. our generation, in addition to a handful of people, presumably there would be no material wealth for future generations, even if, as I do in the . We are doomed to poor life. But, leaving our experience and lessons to make our children on the road in their lives less we have to write their own stories for their own. fortieth anniversary of the occasion, the students to e-letter that his heart was heavy, the three students to think of suicide could not help but burst into tears. I like him recently with a heavy heart: Our mind can not completely from the depressive state of mind, this should lead to disease that the most important factor.
October 18 each year, I tend to habitually listen to Shostakovich's Thirteenth Symphony ; (Barbi-Yar, free translation is the mass murder of the Russian made, many commentators have denounced the fact that Stalin's massacre, denounced the totalitarian rule of the evil. that if vigorous, depression, filled with grief and indignation, Ruqirusu song, seems to have sing my heart. I know, this is my outlet in the heart through his music repression.
depressed state of mind from the time to get out! We Although far from unhappy life, most people had never shown a lifetime of living off the rosy ...

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Dogs and rabbits - Human Resources Management 2 What is the goal

 China Marketing Communication Network, 2003-06-20, Author: Jiangding Wei, Cai Wei, access number: 2259
7 on the page: catalog page 1 page 1 page 2 Third, the long-term treatment within a period of time. So the number of dogs who catch the rabbit and weight have increased, hunters very happy. But after a period of time, hunters find hunting dogs were caught and dropped the number of rabbits. And the more experienced dogs , the number of rabbits caught down the more powerful. So they ask the dog hunters. hounds, said: a rabbit, you eat it will give us the bones?
A is a make-up of a cosmetics company owner, a small company, the recent decline in effectiveness, the boss said to me: how is it? properly done before, and now work as before, the company now poor performance, how they do not work hard as before? really no way, can you introduce me to some serious and responsible people to work? CEOs with a lot of people tune slot to a rival group. B Qi Gugu to say, I've done a lot for them, cash bonuses for the honor of the wages of the long and long, and why they should go away now ?
A and B are not the short-term interests of employees combined with the long-term interests, they do not want to understand why people would go, the old hero would go, people will have the ability to walk. the company's policy orientation is the case, people naturally would make such a reflection. So, in order to solve this problem, we must not only be employees, the company's combination of short-term interests, but also to employees, the company's short-term interests and long-term interests together. Human resource management is an important goal will keep short-term interests of employees combined with the long-term interests, therefore, there came stock options, employee stock ownership.
hunters are smart, he knows how to maximize the energy dog, constantly adjusting the morale of the hounds. Although the story is simple, to us it is a lot of inspiration. our business, human resources work, how to mobilize the workers in the enthusiasm of the staff to achieve business purposes, by what process, and create what kind of atmosphere to have the ability to Maximum capacity of people to play. This is in fact the objectives of human resources - to create a play to decided to reward on merit, analysis and summary of all the dogs caught the rabbit number and weight, provides that if a rabbit caught more than a certain number, even if not caught the rabbit, every meal can get a certain number of bones. dogs are very happy, we are all striving to reach the number of hunters required. Finally, some dogs reached the required number of hunters. this one, there is a clever dog on the dog said: a few bones, and we grasp the prey is far more than a few bones of this, why can not we catch yourself rabbit? marketing consulting agency Fitch friendship Zhuanzhai: 

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Ke Yunlu refining into how the college entrance exam (Figure)

 American psychologist Professor Rosenthal has done an experiment in a class roster, he randomly draw the names of several students, and then tell the teacher, these students passed his test, is particularly high IQ students. by the remarks of the teacher really think these kids were bright, smart hh A year later the results of several children in the class ahead. what the child is seen as, what was said, was how to deal with, in a short period of time, will become the child's reality.
confused mother: how to let his son better?
Ke Teacher: Hello!
always liked looking at your blog, you teach children how to give us a lot of good suggestions, I have always like to see this article, but feel that there are some problems.
I am having two sons kindergarten teacher older, was state-owned kindergarten, the teacher is not so kind, regardless of the child cried, talked the heavier with the child, allowing kids to be afraid of the teacher so formed characteristic. went on to primary school, I took the initiative to communicate with the teacher, the teacher told him good, but her teachers always have some stiff, unlike what other kids do things look for the teacher. The teacher also reflects that he is not love words, if the lack of point of self-confidence. but in everyday life, especially after leaving school he is more assertive, but also love to speak in front of friends and family, said he was articulate. I do not know how to get him in school and in life become the same, where it can be full of confidence.
he has a problem is slow, the time to do things easily deserted. in learning it, he accepted the teacher a new lesson soon, classroom performance is good, but the teacher assignments, he moves to slow down, but the results always belonged to the middle and upper. then we transfer him, and just started school he has a fresh, over a period of time, the situation appeared slow to move . can not do homework is not, but always have to open some small difference. We would also like a lot of way to motivate him to do his homework ah what the prescribed time, but he often can not finish in the allotted time, and this time should be sufficient The.
addition to homework, the food, ah, what to do other things, ah, always half a beat slower than their peers, we went to check his blood, his zinc deficiency, calcium deficiency, more serious, we have to He added, his intelligence did not find any problems, but often show a very clever boy. acceptance quickly, understanding enough to give one thing he said he would more likely than their peers to understand what we mean, is not like other children do love to fight first, if not the first fight does not matter. Every time when compared with others, what he always ask: Are there any slower than I did doing worse? he there is no dispute that the first sense of the time playing with the children also often play with the kind of behind in others, not take the lead in the children ideas.
Ke teacher, I said you can address these issues, to I have some good advice? (a confused mother)
Ke Yunlu: every day to find a reason to praise the child
In my opinion, your children well, no big problem, no need to confusion.
I've often heard some parents complain their children chronic, do not worry, things do not know the step. In fact, children often than not, slow-moving character of the reasons but too good parental care. now mostly only one child, a child above a number of adults worry about, whether living or study, adults in the rear end always like to urge and remind the child goes without any initiative.
such as the children get up early to go to school, have not washed my face, hurried to eat, no time to get dressed down their jobs, parents have been carrying bags, etc. in the side. children home from school, school bags not open, parents have been nagging lose to learn a kind of remark, made a very rebellious child. In addition, work too much, and many families also arranged outside of normal school extra-curricular tasks, tutorial, and so a variety of disciplines. the child will think, even seize the time to complete the job, the same No time to play. This would inevitably mean that children become bored, they simply waste time either. If another way, appropriate to reduce the burden on children's learning, and tell the child if homework ahead of time, allowing him to play like video games or play with peers I believe most children will not only lose and there will be a great initiative.
play is the child's nature, must give the child enough play time.
In addition, such as removing some of the innate character of a child born mm impatient, some children born to chronic mm dragging the child to work, mostly from the parents where to find a cause, not to drop the total number of children. only from the mentioned in your letter questioning the child's sentence: slow done worse, smart intelligence is no problem, no need to make it fill it, which makes the child know what to do, or really think they have any shortcomings. I believe that no child will be like from the subjectively poor results, do not think that only the parents of the child's performance sensitive. standing child point of view, his face every day when school teachers and students, face a variety of tests, like the athletes are in track, how does not want outstanding results? but requires the child everything the first fight, not only practical , and the price is too high, the results are not necessarily ideal. the existing education system there are still many unreasonable place, stylized teaching creative thinking on the growth of children is often the opposite effect. Moreover, the so-called first, always only one, Most children can not be when the first, not even when the second and third, but this does not prevent those who do not fight to the first second and third children's growth and happiness. It should also be seen that many children walk with good academic results on social development is not satisfactory after, this is because the school education in addition to book knowledge, very few things to their richer. we see many of the School scores at first, but they can also live a very promising and make achievements. human capacity is a comprehensive, exam performance is a reflection of ability, but the capacity may not be entirely reflected in the results of examination.
You talked about his confusion, I hope I give advice, then, if you let me point out that in the current issue of family education, we must first have confidence in the children, truly believe that he is a healthy and wise up boy. the same time, children weaknesses to be good positive guidance to encourage him to even very tiny bit of progress.
Ke teacher left you a job: one month's time each day to find a real reason for the child or harm, such as today's adults do not press will be able to get up, such as clean work written over the previous few days, such as eating focus, such as the family is very polite to the guests, such as small class can take the initiative to help students, such as help you do a little housework , and so on.
children grow, change every day. parents of children who must be good at discovering those positive changes. such as the thirst for knowledge the child, the child's good and simple. who have a positive performance in time, and encouragement.
you mentioned the child's personality, that the child at home a silver tongue, relative to schools within that environment may be different from the character of the child. the lack of expression in schools initiative, the reason to specific analysis. self-confidence is very important to child growth and success of the quality, not confident there will be no creativity. However, the cultivation of self-confidence to have a process, in addition to patience, we should also have methods. can take the initiative and teachers to communicate course good, but usually, when we can not fully grasp the objective environment, to emphasize the subjective efforts, here mainly refers to you as a mother's efforts. through you sincerely appreciate and encourage your child know that he had many advantages, but also improving day by day. let him know his mother loved him very much, and proud of him.
, of course, every praise must be sincere, realistic, and can not be unprincipled favor, not to shield their mistakes.
a lack of confidence in the mother before the child, the face of the external world can not have full confidence. the child's childhood, his mother is facing the biggest external environment. mother frowned, blame one, may think no big deal, but heart in young children, but it may be the world's most severe judge of his. Similarly, the mother of a smile, a sincere compliment the mother will make the child more confident, inspired the creation of his great enthusiasm and the enthusiasm up. < br> Special to stress that other children can never take the advantages and strengths and weaknesses and the weaknesses of their children than it would hurt the child's self-esteem, is not conducive to the growth of children.
do so, a month After that there will be major changes in your child.
hope you are no longer confused, when a successful mother. (Ke Yunlu)
Ke Yunlu: How to Make college entrance exam?
( a) The Act established a new image
aspects: the image of wise, strong image, healthy image, moral image, free images, outstanding modern consciousness.
wise image of the specific performance: intelligent, imaginative, love brains, learning ability, creativity .
strong image of the specific performance: self-reliance, independence, self-confident, not afraid of difficulties, dare say, on the one reasonable manner.
image manifested itself: love of learning, make progress, broad interests, cheerful and lively.
healthy image specific performance: physical health, mental health, rarely sick. moral image of the specific performance: good interest and understanding of others, to understand right and wrong, to understand good and evil, there is social adaptability. should have the best of modern consciousness: sense of independence, determination, competition, struggle consciousness, awareness, awareness of benefits, money consciousness, social awareness and so on.
designed for children when the parents of an ideal image, how to make those designed to truly become a child's reality , we should use an experiment, the group of mice were randomly divided into two groups: A group and B group. Then, he told the breeder A group A group of mice particularly smart, and tell the breeder group B group B mice is of average intelligence . A few months later, these two groups of mice through the maze of tests, found that A group of rats than in group B mice smarter, able to be out of the maze and find food.
Thus, Professor Rosenthal received a revelation He put this revelation in the person's body with.
in a class roster, he randomly draw the names of several students, and then tell the teacher, these students through his observations and testing, particularly IQ high students, in fact, he did not understand the situation of students in the class.
affected by these words, the teachers really think these kids particularly smart, so the total child with a clever approach to deal with them. A year later that the results of several children in the class ahead.
long period of time, it will become the child's reality.
Rosenthal Effect is worth attention for each parent.
specific to family education for children is designed as the ideal parent image, the image may remain in the language, vocabulary: for example, intelligent, confident, healthy, moral, comfortable and so on. this time with the imagination necessary to understand the ways in which the image of the original abstract design into the reality of the child.
In practice, often Imagine the child's new image, new image of the child as the child's reality, no matter what it is like being a child. Parents should always imagine that when a child is what the wise? creative time look like? to imagine children will become smarter, more creative. In terms of mental qualities, we should imagine a child into a strong, confident, bold, dare say, has the capacity of people, and will be more psychological good. In moral terms, think of the children are right and wrong, and caring person. In health, no matter how the child's current physical condition, should the health of the children's imagination, and imagine that he will become healthy. In free state, the children think of the interest in learning, self-conscious, to make progress, want their children to manage their own lives, and good humor.
parents have to do once or twice a day so the imagination, in particular, in the face of a kid.
for older children, but also inspired by children themselves induce such visions. let the children often imagine and experience a new image of yourself. because all the kids, even the underachieving too idealistic child, also have their own special interest in the subject; then weak children, have had a bold strong time; character do not shy child, and there have been lively and cheerful time; then withdrawn children also had and a good partner happy playing time. The so-called experience, find yourself in life is to have had that feeling. For a moment the health and happiness can be, we can understand. These feelings found in everyone.
if the parents designed to treat children for their new image, you can approach through imagination and experience into this new image.
children to appreciate, understand our children, our children equally, we care about children, we respect the children, our patience, we listen, our wisdom, our calm, we are confident. Please give it a try, imagine that he is kind of children, understanding , respect, equality, listening, caring and enjoy. Imagine a child in their own eyes, you can find the feeling.
(2) describe the established method described
established method, which uses language to describe themselves as children continue to the image of the design.
established method described results in a child with very obvious, it can be said immediate.
how do you describe your child? how do you introduce your child to others? how do you evaluate the child himself? this Description is very important. particularly when small children, play a decisive role in this description.
in the intellectual, you have to so describe their children: My children particularly smart, especially the love of their brains, new ideas particularly and often unexpected problems can think of others, in particular, love of learning. When you described the child, which describes the impact on children began a long time to be recognized for their children. parents of the child's description is very important. This also investigated a number of successful family education is an important conclusion derived from.
strong quality of the child should be how to describe it? you describe his strong, adaptable, dare to social, dare to speak, not afraid of difficulties. Whether is a description of the child, or others described their children, for example, baby, you're a good boy, especially the brave, especially generous. children will feel that they have this quality. describe the more children the more courageous, the larger side.
the moral aspects of the children, to this description: My child is willing to care for others, and know how to care for others; my child be able to distinguish right from wrong, distinguish between good and bad; my children good, but not naive; I children can take care of themselves, to protect themselves; my child interested in social, good at uniting people hh
the health of children, to this description: My child's body are particularly good, getting better and better with age; I The children rarely get sick, get sick like the rest latter; my child's psychological health hh
also particularly comfortable for the child's status should be established with a description of the way: for example, my kids love learning, learning Special conscious, hobbies; my child is willing to manage their own lives, never let the parents worry about; my child motivated hh
kinds of technology. you what the child is designed, how will the future of the child. At the same time to completely get rid of a bad past, a description of the child as soon as possible to eliminate their negative impact on children. Some parents are always used in front of others reprove the child faces as well this is not good, that is bad image. For example, you can often family, friends, the children say this: After learning, I now become a new parent. When I was a new look in front of the children, I am kind and I appreciate the children to understand , equality, and I am concerned about the child, respect for children, I patient, I listen, I am a child guidance, I relaxed, I'm confident.
(3) any act to establish the image of the design method
should be reflected by an act, by behavior set down.
you designed for children of any new quality, should create opportunities for children by the quality of behavior, this quality is fixed down slowly. For example, you give the child the image of a bold design, but Children are still relatively timid. how to do it? through behavior that is not enough light. kids to McDonald's to eat, you can make him something to counter their own. He may be timid start, but after finally inspired to do after the induction of and want to be sure of his bravery: You are so good; very bold (This also is the the image of the design, should be fixed by acts.
If your child design a clever image, how do you do? children may be watching cartoons, If this story compiled by you to, look like the ending? . This behavior becomes a clever feature to consolidate down.
If you want to cultivate children's love of learning to cultivate the habit, then, when faced with something of interest caused by their children, the children especially love to learn where their own wondering when you should make sure that this behavior, then the kids love the quality of learning was consolidated once.
you want to design the image of their own children to care for others, can not rely on your mouth and say, but to action. For example, where you days brought him out and saw a small child than his crying in the street, you say: , said: , should let the children repeat the behavior once, twice, three times. For small children, the establishment of a quality, repeated two or three times has a good effect. older children to create a more stable quality, you only through the appropriate behavior, and let this behavior repeatedly, good quality can also be established.
So, with by behavior change. We in the sound, repeated several times, and soon had the courage to speak out loud.
to establish a new image through the act.
parents new quality of their own design, but also established by an act. No matter what quality, there are several time behavior, you will find the feeling, this quality gradually established in the body down. This is the immediate thing, is not difficult.
as long as it is determined to act, put the process in the conduct set down a new image .
own design when you give the parents a nice image, you can not always stay in their own design, and interaction in the behavior of children and set down. In the past the children not nice, not enough patience, not appreciate , not equal, and today, the children back, and you treat him with a new, listened with great interest the first time his school to talk about things that never used the first method of using the past to appreciate him, praise him. This when you design your own image to be your parents behave.
way in the new act, the parents of the new image began to be finalized in you.
what you can not do at all times in the past smiling, when out of the house today and saw a neighbor, to see the security area, go to work to meet your colleagues treat you with a smile consciously. After several days of practice, you will find that the behavior of put this smile face Design with a smile fixed down. slowly habit you a little more blessings.
the image of the design of all children, including parents, the image of their own design, are available through the ; be established, the original image remain in the conceptual design into a new self-living, living a new child. 

Monday, December 27, 2010

Won the European top league of the first Chinese

 Beijing at 20:30 on April 29, Eredivisie League 34 scale war. Eindhoven little hope in winning the case, in the 5-1 home victory over Wei Tesi, while AZ Alkmaar Rotterdam lost 2-3 away to lowly elite Ajax 2-0 victory over Willem II, PSV Eindhoven and Ajax that the same plot of 75 points, but PSV has a margin of 50 ball, than Ajax's goal difference of 49 more than a lucky team history, won the first 30 league titles, so the players played for PSV Eindhoven Sun Xiang of China has become since the professional China's overseas players, the squad won the first man to top the league title ..'m really very happy, congratulations Sun Xiang a ~ ~ ~

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Fit aside, the new Yaris Blue Ocean Strategy

 New Fit Thinking out of the curing of traditional car, the use of personal style to create a force close to the family of value, in order to get rid of a compact car with many tangled with each other the negative situation, open up a new market segment relatively safe mmA0 + personality hatchback car.
SDL year through innovative marketing, get rid of the sedan market awareness Fit impression market took a dramatic turn; now, the new Fit is also trying to change the public on this Fit thousand mountains leap , but they themselves are not think so. Right now, the wide abundance and wide began to deal rationally competition between these two products, instead of a lose-lose, it is better to seek win-win situation. In this vein, the Yaris positioning fine, fashion line, women tend to customers; and the new Fit is another way of neutral: a dynamic style, Kuanshu space and alternative marketing, trying to fit an ordinary car into a young family's personality model. compared to the Yaris, the new Fit more emphasis on practical models, showing the values for the car.
new Fit: open up new areas A0 +
Although body size is A0-class, but the new Fit's interior space, configuration, built-in level of dynamic performance is close to a higher level of A-hatchback, can be said to A0 + or A-. In this line of thinking, the new Fit's target opponent is no longer the Yaris, but turned to A-level hatchback.
A Class hatchback car, the Tiida, Focus hatchback, the new 307 hatchback is one of the main sales, in particular, Tiida, May sales of 6,000 units or more is reached, opponent can hold a candle. the reasons for the style, the new Fit locate closer to the Tiida. If the new Fit to jump off the siege of A0-class, but at a higher level to establish their own position, then it not only can avoid the fate of low-price competition, but also can effectively strengthen the consolidation of both the old Fit advantage. Of course, how to market acceptance of the A0 + or A-position, the need for convincing data and model comparison.
style, low-cost power
compared with many competing products, the new style of trying to highlights the power of his special style. This sense of style, full of strength and vision by the appearance of momentum, in line with the strong power, agile handling and lower fuel consumption to be reflected.
with dynamic modeling is the first forward setting sensory impressions, such powerful men feel more car buyers can move, it means an unusual style and personality implied control performance. power and fuel consumption into account, these two seemingly irreconcilable contradictions in the Honda, where possible solution, a Honda car has locked up. especially in the context of soaring oil prices, how to control the car costs a consideration of ordinary young families. Fit for the purchase of new families, they are in the cause of the initial stage, limited determine the economic strength of their targets for fuel consumption value. As for the Toyota Yaris, the fuel is their strong suit. the two fields of products are likely to gain from higher oil prices in the market growth.
practical consideration Although the new Fit Fashion
to personality and practical as the main selling point, but in the product marketing and promotion process, it also uses some unconventional marketing methods to create a selling point of their fashion personality. stunning style with the Yaris fashion, the new Fit's fashion style is more to life, close to the aspirations of ordinary people. This endorsement from the former to please Karen, and then use an ordinary Fit older models can be discerned when the FIT LADY. If Yaris look ethereal and fleeting fashion, then fashion a new Fit is at your fingertips.
appearance of impact, flexible manipulation, which is the power of the new elements of Fit's products; then, in the promotion process, it is amazing roadshow possible model car industry from abroad popular fashion element. fashion caravans, landmark RODE SHOW, the presentation of these innovative new Fit will be embodied in future. The test for the target customers and Driving Performance , will make people understand: the car can also be affixed to the ground. 

Thursday, December 23, 2010

The final choice of female white-collar naked

 Strip: the final choice of female white-collar
text / Wei Yan
recently asked by one person, looking for his daughter, white-collar boyfriend, tell the truth, I promised the surface, and the heart do not really want to do such things . I always think a little pimp means that matchmaker is sent to a beautiful living someone else's chamber, and fix destroyed the woman's life, in the end many things, often the opening is a good thing, bad ending, in this materialistic years, most of the unfortunate marriage, marry a woman will regret, not a man not that bad man.
a day, with a chat with friends, talking about the movie to me, is not it?
Speaking of explosives, the image that this analogy is to think of her as a friend to find her boyfriend of a thing of the explosives that really. friends breaks into laughter, saying do not do is to let his daughter naked? stripped of both the process was the result. It is a bit of Chinese characters must, I have to admire those bad people smart, highly intelligent.
friends back to my tongue twister, said: bachelor means that you can strip out, de- a bachelor of light can escape. naked female white-collar workers is no doubt the last option.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Guangdong Corps brilliant start again!

 Yang Naijun reminded that the diving project's He Chong, He got the gold medal position though, but it did not show a personal best level. / p>

Looking forward to Yuejun shine

Project: Foil

stadium dotting

before the start of the current Asian Games, Guangdong athlete development objectives are: Contest Results highest in the country, to achieve spiritual and Competition bumper . a proportion of the new record; highest in the country, and domestic provinces, autonomous regions and compared to athletes winning gold medals in Guangdong membership number and the number of medals, tops the first, second place ahead of third place in Shandong's 38 gold in Shanghai 37 gold.


Guangdong Corps brilliant start again


table tennis player Ma Lin with a good condition, maintaining the national team's main position, however, the performance of Liu Shiwen there may affect the competitiveness of her team, Men's Foil of thunder and other basic human sit on the national team's main position, and badminton, weightlifting and other players eclipsed the Guangdong project, but also likely to impact on their national team. Guangdong is difficult Judo, Xian Dongmei retired in the 52 kg class top athletes and the country has emerged in Guangdong fault.

and Excellent results complement each other, the couple started in Guangdong sports arena into the center of the international sports arena. the young players come to the fore, the shooting of the teenager is easy to think Ling, one of the most representative. the first time Asian Games Ling Yi think, by virtue of their own efforts and the help of his teammates, won the 10-meter air rifle in one breath groups and individuals, 50m rifle three position groups, three gold medals. gymnast Huang Qiu Shuang also performed well, women's team, vault, together with the Almighty the uneven bars, 2 gold, 2 silver and 4 gold medals. a lot of other projects also emerged players, such as diving He Zi, and slalom of Teng Zhiqiang, have also been a high attention and evaluation.

think Yi Ling

At the same time, a series of athletes selected for the Guangdong team for the analysis of the London Olympic Games is also engaged in tension. Yangnai Jun analysts say, Table Tennis, Ma Lin is still able to maintain a relatively stable position of the national team, and experienced a little Liu Wen setbacks must withstand some of the test.'s Yang Yilin Gymnastics Team, yellow autumn cool, and no opportunity to participate in the Asian Games of the Wu Liufang has considerable strength of the Olympic team was selected. Foil players thunder, Zhu Jun, Urban transportation finance, and track and field athletes for humanism shooters think Yi Ling, canoeing athlete Li Qiang, rower Huang Wenyi, Slalom Teng Zhiqiang and other young players, all have the strength to participate in the Olympic Games in London.

< p> Asian victories make history

Hong Liu



■ regret


93 people gain 41 gold! 15 days after the fighting arena, the Chinese delegation, Deputy Secretary-General, Guangdong Provincial Sports Bureau Yang Naijun mood finally ease down, In addition, there are six officials in Guangdong, 22 coaches, five doctors entered the Chinese delegation. contrast the Doha Asian Games in Guangdong, 74 major items of the 31 athletes, 70 small items, a total score wins 29 gold and Guangdong Provinces to go further realized.


contrast lost due to inexperience example, stop at the top step before Finally, a millimeter force, but played poorly last only Zhibubaqiang spot.

Comments: Teng Zhiqiang is the history of its first Asian Games gold medalist in slalom, with the maturing experience of exercise, strength superior slalom, he is expected to become one of the London Olympics to win gold points.

Yuejun

< p> Comments: 3 wins gold in one breath, so easy to think ling young and famous. as the traditional advantages of the project, shooting in the Asian Games suffered a severe challenge, losing a lot of gold. If we can maintain the state, into the London Olympic basic No suspense, in London, easy to think Ling will take up once again proved China's important task of shooting.



projects: Diving



Comments: sweep the four medals Shuang Huang Qiu Asian Games is definitely one of the highlights on the gymnastics competition. coupled with an experienced and although did not participate in the Asian Games, but has been low-key gathering strength of the Wu Liufang, Guangdong gymnastics female athletes definitely have the ability to create surprise in London.

Comments: Although the team did not make singles, Marlene still got a team gold and a silver medal in doubles. good competitive status and wealth of practical experience, is the Olympic team left behind the two Ma Lin magic.


projects: Shooting

the current results, Yang Naijun admits, after the National Games for the efforts of Shandong to . table tennis champion Liu Shiwen, albeit for the first time the Asian Games, but in the World Championship, World Cup individual competition in the veteran she is still not able to withstand pressure, the semi-finals in the women's team lost the first point, which led directly to the final she missed the final lineup. In addition to travel with the team received the gold medal women's team, has missed the individual's singles gold medal before the Liu Wen received only one women's doubles silver medal. In addition, before the game is called Lu Miao instrument players disorders are also very sorry people, talents, and even her high rank in the 25-meter pistol only qualifying 28th, missed the final.

Sport: Table Tennis

the Asian Games, there are 148 athletes from Guangdong in the field and hard work on behalf of China, 93 people won 41 gold medals, a total of 182 people won 79 medals, created in Guangdong since the Asian Games athletes the best results. newspaper reporter interviewed representatives of the Chinese Sports the Deputy Secretary-General, Provincial Sports Bureau Yang Naijun, combing the Asian Games in Guangzhou, Guangdong Sports harvest every bit of surprise, every move and every point of regret.

Comments: two athletes with the strength of gold in London, but it must Note that they must pay attention to the case of the stand out how to improve their higher standard, which is p>

projects: Gymnastics


these non-Austrian project won the gold medal, is reflected in the solid strength of Guangdong mass sports and mass basis. At the same time, sports results, and not because of the rise of mass sport less, but fly with both wings. appearance made her famous

London Olympics and Guangdong will guess


Teng Zhiqiang

projects: Slalom


thunder, Zhu Jun, Urban transportation financial

Comments: From the World Championship to the Asian Games, these three guys are China Guangdong mainstay of fencing. Chinese men's saber has proven himself on the Beijing Olympic Games , then look at whether the recycling of Chinese male flower magic.

Comments: As the Beijing Olympic Games participated in canoeing champion, Li Qiang from national team in 2007 to determine the main location. Yang Wenjun, Meng Liang retired, Li Qiang, in addition to re-enter the Olympics, but also learn to adapt to


Ma Lin

the Guangdong sports is concerned, the Asian Games has two main objectives: first, the team has entered the national team To continue to consolidate the main position, the second is through the game suddenly take some novice, with excellent performance for the national team, in fact, it all boils down to two goals 剑指 Olympics. It appears that these two goals are only achieved half of the .

basketball semifinals, Wang Shipeng lore Iran, and ultimately turn the tide and the Chinese team into the final escort Basketball Final. Wang in the finals of the Big Brother show demeanor, Wang Shipeng and Zhu Fangyu also has this kind of Guangdong athletes indomitable fighting spirit, minutes 06 seconds to win success. Men's Foil competition, the thunder, Urban transportation finance, Zhu Jun, who returned from Paris after the Fencing World Championship on day 4, Zheng Chen unwashed to go into battle again, in order to win the men spent the final group set the military exploits. Liangjia Hong, Su Bing Tim is jointly won a man of Chinese track and field 4 x 100 meter relay gold medal, helping the Chinese team on this project for the summit again after a lapse of 20 years, the Asian Games.

in Guangdong received 41 gold medals, the non-Olympic projects accounted for a 11, concentrated in the boat, sport dance, martial arts and other advantages of the host has a strong project. This 11 non-Olympic gold, is also participating in the history of Guangdong Sports in Asian Games to new heights. Yangnai Jun said, sports scores, reflect the strength of the comprehensive development of the Guangdong Olympic athletes and non-Olympic projects to achieve a breakthrough, it is the amateur and competitive sport development results.

Qiang

He Chong, He Zi

lack of experience is very painful lesson. If 74kg Taekwondo competition, the strength of the players because the judge ordered Lee to attack before, is immediately disqualified.

Comments: Liu Hong The strength of the 20 km race walking has been one of the world class level, adjust the state's ability is amazing, get the ticket to the London Olympics is expected to have been pretty close. More importantly, her body is also saddled with the earnest expectation of the Chinese Track and Field .

after the end of the Asian Games, Chinese sports will summary and follow-up into the stage of the deployment phase, since large-scale training for the London Olympics is about to begin. Yang Naijun already figured, this time to continue to deliver more training in Guangdong membership athletes, coaches and researchers to increase the sport in Guangdong share of the national team, The excellent performance.

■ achievements

athletes in Guangdong badminton, table tennis and other advantages of the project's overall performance unsatisfactory, and some projects are harvested surprise. Zhou Jiawei 100m butterfly win, Liang Jiahong, Subing Tim Relay with teammates won the men's championship together, easy to think Ling for the first time the Asian Games to gain 3 gold, these young people can be regarded as the Asian Games on the greatest discovery of Guangdong.

Yang Naijun told reporters, as the host, the athletes participating in Guangdong is very high enthusiasm, .

still need to hone mental quality

project: track and field

projects: Canoe